6 Ways to impress your Mother -IN -Law

Getting married is like the most difficult and important task in one’s life. At the time of marriage, all your dreams come true, and it seems like a fairytale. It is to be said that when a girl marries a boy, she marries the entire family. Indian mother-in-laws are considered to be the best and worst too. It is very difficult to impress them because no matter how hard you try, they are never satisfied. Still we are supposed to put our best to impress her. Newly weds need to be very careful when it comes to your husband’s mom. Think before you speak to your husband regarding your mother-in-law.

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Following are the simple tips which you can imply while impressing your mother-in-law:-

1) Keep talking- Don’t be too silent when she says something that makes you upset. This is kind of a negative behaviour. If you don’t like something, then talk to her about it in a way that she is able to understand your perspective.

2) Respect her- It is very important that you show respect to your mother-in-law. She has raised your husband, so she deserves some credit. So if you want that your love with your husband does not get affected and it always remain healthy, always respect your mother-in-law.

3) Help her- She has been taking care of your husband’s family since her marriage, so its your turn now. Always take initiative to help your mother-in-law in kitchen, household chores, grocery shopping and whereever she needs you. This is a simple step that you must take.

4) Ask for her advice- You are new to your husband’s family so if there is anything about which you are not aware of, simply seek advice from your mother-in-law. Just the way you used to take advice from your mother, try it on from your mother-in-law. She is also experienced. She would feel respected. It is not that difficult girls.

5) Treat her well- Always remember that it can be a difficult for a mother to share her son, those emotions only a mother can understand. You don’t know her journey on how she brought up your husband. So giver her some time and space. Slowly and gradually she will understand. If some messy happens in your family, just try to avoid a fight.

6) Go out with her- This step can be fun. Spending time with your mother-in-law will move you closer to her. Just go out with her where she likes to go, go for shopping, take her out for lunch and dinner to make her feel special and ensure that you too like her and love her as your husband does. Doing this will make her feel secured and loved.

Not all the mother-in-laws are bad. They can be your best friend if you try to initiate by taking such simple steps. The main problem with a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is the feeling of inferiority. So if you follow the steps, you can definitely win her heart. They can be a real source of support but its only the daughter-in-laws need to recognise. After all, “Saas bhi kabhi bahu thi