Here’s Why it is ok to Marry Someone with whom you are not Physically Attracted

The first thing that we notice in a person when we see them is their looks and then there only we start judging them based on their looks. Most of the people gives first preference to looks while choosing their life partner but some go deep into person’s personality to choose the right now. Arranged marriages is very common in India and other countries too , but do you think that every couple whose marriage was arranged was attracted to each other from the time they met? The answer is No, because when we grow older we realize that looks doesn’t matter anymore.

When it comes to choosing your life partner, go for one who understands you and love you more than anything else. Looks fades away with age but your nature and personality remains with you. Physical attraction is great but usually shallow , when you are with someone you should get attracted to their inner beauty. Love is a choice and not a condition where you can put your conditions before falling for someone.

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Kindness is what all matters today because it is lost in this selfish world. The kindness can be felt through your partner actions , their caring and kind nature will matter and then you will realize the importance of having a true partner. Marriage is not about looks, it is about companionship, love , loyalty and supporting each other in their goals. We need a partner who has a great sense of humor , A laugh with your partner who is funnier and has great sense of humor is any day better than a person with good looks who is not so entertaining and boring. The bond that can be created from just laughing and have fun is priceless and worth it.

Honesty is the most important quality in any human being because it builds and binds a relationship, without honesty you cannot survive a relationship so if your partner is honest with you , hold onto them don’t let them go because in the end it’s all about the love and honesty and not about looks.